Does Marriage Decline Mean Society’s Demise?

Written by Krsnanandini Devi Dasi & Tariq Saleem Ziyad   The verdict is in; the diagnosis given.  Marriage is in trouble in America.  Marriages everywhere are ailing or failing to take place.  The remedy adopted by too many troubled couples is divorce.   The trouble we’re in also applies to those who cohabit, break up and then […]

Help Teens Learn To Build Relationships

Written by Mike McManus   Although teen birth rates have fallen by a third over a decade, one in three U.S. teenage girls still get pregnant.  And teenagers account for half of all first out-of-wedlock births. Few of those girls will ever marry, and only 30 percent of those who do are in their first […]

Ten Truths About Affairs

Written by Michele Weiner-Davis   In my three-decade therapy practice with couples, I wish I had a penny for each time I heard someone say, “If my spouse ever has an affair, I’m outta here.”  But then reality happens.  His or her spouse strays.  John Lennon once said, “Life is what happens to you while […]

What Can You Do With A Busted Marriage?

Written by Abigail Hirsch, Ph.D.   You just found another text message from him to another woman.  Or maybe she did it again, spent far too much on things that are definitely not in the budget.  Perhaps it simply feels like it’s been forever since there’s been any romance and “I love you” feels like […]

In Sickness and in Health

Written by Chris Gersten   I broke my foot eight weeks ago. Not something you want to do when you are having trouble recovering from hip replacement.   At first I thought it was a sprain. My physical therapist was certain it was a sprain. A physician I spoke to on the phone thought is was […]

“Should I Stay or Should I Go?” : The Easy Question to Answer

Written by Michele Weiner-Davis   Are you sitting on the, “Should-I-stay-or-should-I-go” fence, endlessly considering the pros and cons about ending your marriage? Here’s some advice.  Stop waffling. Don’t get divorced! In my three decades of work with couples I have seen hundreds of thousands of couples fall in love again, many of which reconnected at […]

What Does Divorce Look Like from the Eyes of a Child?

Written by Lori Lowe   Although I’ve been blogging about research-based marriage tips for nearly three years, I’ve never written about my personal experience as a child of divorce. When I was asked to write about it, I hesitated, because I don’t want to focus on a negative past or hurt my parents. But I […]

Is Divorce Literally Killing Our Nation’s Children?

Written by Beverly Willett   People continue their outrage over the fact that Casey Anthony is a free woman.  I wonder, though, if those screaming injustice know that for decades millions of parents have perhaps been contributing to the death of their own children.  And, if they did, whether they’d  shout as loudly, or instead […]

Not Counting Marriage and Divorce

Written by Dr. Janice Shaw Crouse   The federal government has decided that it is too expensive to track marriage and divorce data; instead, it has turned its attention to tracking data about sexual activity, behavior, attraction, and identity of teens and adults. The marriage reports used to be detailed accounts (age of bride and […]

How To Save the Most Troubled Marriages

Written by Mike McManus   Based on the results of weekend retreats led by volunteer couples across the country, it might be possible to save four out of five of the most troubled marriages. More than a decade ago Rita was so disgusted with Tony that she filed for divorce.  Then she witnessed the impact […]