The Impact of Divorce | Coalition For Divorce Reform - Part 8

What Does Divorce Look Like from the Eyes of a Child?

Written by Lori Lowe   Although I’ve been blogging about research-based marriage tips for nearly three years, I’ve never written about my personal experience as a child of divorce. When I was asked to write about it, I hesitated, because I don’t want to focus on a negative past or hurt my parents. But I […]

Is Divorce Literally Killing Our Nation’s Children?

Written by Beverly Willett   People continue their outrage over the fact that Casey Anthony is a free woman.  I wonder, though, if those screaming injustice know that for decades millions of parents have perhaps been contributing to the death of their own children.  And, if they did, whether they’d  shout as loudly, or instead […]

Not Counting Marriage and Divorce

Written by Dr. Janice Shaw Crouse   The federal government has decided that it is too expensive to track marriage and divorce data; instead, it has turned its attention to tracking data about sexual activity, behavior, attraction, and identity of teens and adults. The marriage reports used to be detailed accounts (age of bride and […]

Domino Dads: Bad for Women, Worse for Children

Written by Dr. Janice Shaw Crouse   Some experts like to debunk the idea of a dad’s importance and talk about the  “myth of the  perfect family.” Such thinking, however, merely sets up a straw man and is erroneous. There is a voluminous body of research that is clear and unambiguous: The very best family […]

How Children Benefit from Strong Marriages

Written by Lori Lowe   My last post shared benefits to the adults who choose to stay married. Even more plentiful are studies showing how children are positively affected—emotionally, sexually, mentally, and physically—when their parents are married as opposed to single or cohabiting. Research shows* that in the U.S. cohabitors resemble singles more than they […]

Making Divorce Statistics Personal

Written by Krsnanandini Devi Dasi & Tariq Saleem Ziyad   A Little Trouble with Statistics: If you’re like us, you’re always a little wary of statistics.  You know that they have to exist.  Products and research get funded or not funded, accepted or rejected by such diverse groups as scientists, universities, food conglomerates and advertising […]

Is Divorce Really That Big a Deal?

Written by Aviva Lauren Rizel   I recall speaking with my best friend, Jennifer, when we were both still in high school. We were daydreaming about the future, about settling down and raising a family. I said, “It must be so scary to get married—how can you know if this person will still be good […]

“If I Were A Rich Man” … Does Marriage Make You Economically Secure, Or Vice-Versa?

Written by John Crouch   The “marriage gap” between the upper-middle and lower classes is not exactly the newest news, but The Economist sure can sharpen the story’s bite. “The traditional family is now the preserve of a minority …Traditional marriage has evolved from a near-universal rite to a luxury for the educated and affluent.” […]

Divorce Lessons For Our Children

Written by Beverly Willett   I got an e-mail the other day about upcoming summer concerts.  Crosby Stills & Nash is coming to town in August.  Last year marked the 40th anniversary of their hit single — “Teach Your Children.”  It was also the 40th anniversary of the inception of our country’s no-fault divorce experiment. […]

Divorce No Longer Hip With The Smart Set – New York Times

Written by John Crouch   America’s leading trend-setters now divorce less and later, and treat divorce more as a failure, not a value-neutral or liberating choice, the New York Times’s Pamela Paul writes in  “How Divorce Lost Its Groove” (page ST-1, 6/19/11, published online 6/17/11 as “How Divorce Lost Its Cachet”). Paul gives several anecdotal […]