The Impact of Divorce | Coalition For Divorce Reform - Part 9

What It Takes to Make It to the Finish Line

Written by Chris Gersten   This week my wife and I celebrated our 44th wedding anniversary. We married at 19. We came from different ethnic, religious, social and-economic backgrounds. If anyone had been taking bets, the odds of our marriage succeeding were less than even. Over forty four years we have had a troubled marriage, […]

Marriage and Divorce in the African American Community

Written by Nisa Muhammad   The African American community has the lowest marriage rate in America and the highest out of wedlock childbirth rate.  But on top of these depressing numbers, the Census Bureau figures released last month show that while everyone else’s divorce rate went down, Black women between the ages of 50-59 were […]

Putting Children First

Written by Linda Chavez   For the first time in history, less than half of Americans now live in married-couple households. The new finding by the Census Bureau reflects the most profound change in the nature of American society ever to have occurred, yet practically no one talks about it. Only 48 percent of American […]

A “Swing Bang Hum Dinger” of a Divorce

Written by Dr. Janice Shaw Crouse   The former White Stripes rocker, Jack White, and his wife, Karen Elson, a model for Louie Vuitton and vintage clothing store owner, threw a big party in Nashville on June 10 to celebrate their sixth wedding anniversary and the announcement of their divorce. Jack is known for rather […]

Living Together: Myths, Risks & Answers

Written by Mike McManus To the Presidential candidates, America’s biggest problem is the economy. However, I believe the disintegration of marriage is the nation’s central domestic problem, costing billions of taxpayer dollars for poverty, depression, crime and suicide. This crisis has three elements: 1. The marriage rate has plunged 53 percent since 1970. Of those […]

How Children of Divorce Can Turn the Tide

Written by Lori Lowe   Recently, I wrote about how being a child of divorce is a risk factor for early death, as reported in the eye-opening book, The Longevity Project. As a child of divorce myself, I was dismayed to learn that children whose parents divorced during childhood died an average of five years […]

Throwing the Baby Out with the Bath Water: Why Divorce Happens to Good Spouses

Written by Kevin Senich Their eyes beg answers to questions they don’t want to ask, answers their ears don’t want to hear. A box of Kleenex that truly understands gender equity is always within easy reach. Those sullen with resignation and those animated with indignation are equally inconsolable. They represent a cross section of Americans […]

Confessions of an Unabashed Marriage Saver

Written by Michele Weiner-Davis I have a confession; I am a psychotherapist who is an unabashed marriage saver.  But it wasn’t always that way.  When I began doing marital therapy in the late Seventies, I was a newlywed, twenty-something therapist charged with helping couples who were usually older than me and grappling with issues I […]

The Long-Term Effects of Divorce on Children

Written by Dr. Janice Shaw Crouse In her book, The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce: a 25-year Landmark Study, Judith Wallerstein documents the long-term effects of divorce. Beginning in 1971, she periodically conducted in-depth interviews with 131 children and their parents from the time of divorce. “We’ve seriously underestimated the long-term impact of divorce on children, […]

Why We Must Reduce Divorce: A Custody Lawyer Looks at the Big Picture Through the Fog of Battle

Written by John Crouch I’m a divorce lawyer in Northern Virginia. Here’s a sample of what I do for a living. I meet with a young lady who tells me, “My husband and I have decided we want a divorce. It will be uncontested, we’re very friendly with each other, and the last thing we […]